“Grief is healing: To think about absent our grief is to think about absent our healing. And studying about existence following death helps us recover with higher hope, comfort and peace.” ~ Bob Olson

In approximately five many years of investigating the chance of existence following death, I have found convincing proof that there really is an afterlife, that we really do continue to exist following death, and that our cherished ones continue to view much more than us and guide us in the spirit planet. But this is just the starting of my discoveries.

A lot much more recently, following sharing this proof with 1000′s of people around the planet through my publications, web sites and content articles, I have acknowledged a direct connection in between one’s diploma of grief and one’s diploma of perception in an afterlife. I call it The Grief And Perception Connection.

I did not usually think in existence following death. In the prior, when I would shed a cherished 1 to sickness, tragedy or suicide, I would usually wonder if an afterlife existed. But pondering about the chance of existence following death by no means eased my grief because I was a skeptic. In actuality, I was the worst kind of skeptic- a cynical 1. This did not mean my thoughts was closed to the concept of existence following death, but I needed proof. However the intangible and mystical high quality of the proof for an afterlife only instigated my cynical skepticism even much more.

As a personal investigator with a diploma in Criminology, proof was my planet. When I investigated murders, the courts only cared about the proof I uncovered that proved or disproved the accused’s guilt. When I handled domestic investigations, customers hired me to obtain photographic and videographic proof of their cheating spouses. And when I investigated person harm instances, attorneys hired me to obtain witness statements, images and materials proof to current at trial. So it ought to not arrive as a shock that I was suspicious, to say the minimum, of the vague metaphysical proof that exists for an afterlife.

The strongest proof for an afterlife is made up of the following (all of which I found critically lacking in credibility): psychic mediums who claim to talk with spirits, individuals who think they had a near-death expertise, hypnotic regressionists who declare a technique for prior-existence travel, and individuals who think to have experienced an following-death communication from a cherished 1 in spirit. Such outrageous claims appeared much less as proof of existence following death and much more as naïve nonsense from people who either require additional attention in their lives or require some thing supernatural to improve their faith. To this P.I. the proof amounted to a bunch of hooey.

Then I visited a psychic medium who turned my existence upside-down. My brother-in-law had insisted she was reputable, so I grew to become fixed on proving her a phony. I booked an appointment for a 1-hour studying. The 1 hour turned into 3, me sobbing like a misplaced kid for fifty % of it. The proof was as well overpowering, the particulars as well correct. My perception that this kind of proof was incredible rapidly crumbled.

The spirit messenger delivered names, dates and reminiscences about my existence she could not feasible have acknowledged: that I played a saxophone solo in my center school band concert that my birthday was in May and that my father died throughout that month, that my mother’s name was Carol, my sister’s name was Bonnie and my wife’s name was Melissa that I was thinking about obtaining a canine, specifically a yellow lab and that I had a brother named Brian who was not really my brother (Brian was my cousin who moved in with my family when he was ten and I was thirteen because his mother and father died in a aircraft crash). And sure, she realized about the aircraft crash, as well.

To this day, the medium nevertheless has no concept why she stored heading that day past the regular 1-hour studying. However by the complete of the third hour, the proof of an afterlife was stacked as well high for me to stay in my skeptical denial. This stranger-medium could not probably have guessed all these particulars about my existence. She had to be obtaining her information from spirit. No, not just any spirit-my father. Only he realized the particulars of the messages she conveyed, or ought to I say, relayed. Not even Melissa, my spouse whom I began dating when I was fifteen many years prior, realized all the particulars of these top solution reminiscences. They were personal, sacred to me. I had not shared them with anybody, not even in a journal.

Getting been a recently published author at the time, I made the decision to start an investigation into existence following death as the foundation for my subsequent guide, starting with mediumship. I was not hasty. I invested 4 many years studying and encountering the metaphysical, usually maintaining the wholesome skepticism I had created as a personal eye. More than the program of these 4 many years, I obtained much more than 1 hundred readings from some of the greatest psychic mediums in the planet. I met credible people with believable stories of near-death expertise, and found there are 1000′s of documented instances that all inform similar accounts of their afterlife journey. I even had my personal efficient prior-existence regression, stupefying me with not just the unexplainable understanding I had about that prior lifetime but also the bodily and emotional roller-coaster ride I endured throughout that regression.

After 4 many years of limitless interviews, study and person experiences, I found myself asking, &ampquotWhat’s the goal?&ampquot How does this proof assist people? The significance acquired misplaced in my hurry to find the options. Now that I had them, I forgot the query. I even wondered if I was turning into irresponsible by exposing the public to my discoveries through my writing and talking. Then, all at as soon as, people began dying-no 1 near to me, but instead, people I realized through other people. And the solution I sought hit me like machine gun fire much more than the program of about ten months.

Initial, my buddy, Kelly, misplaced her husband, Rick, at the age of 35 when a truck hit his car. He had pulled much more than on the highway to solution his cell phone, ironically for safety’s sake. He left Kelly and two children beneath the age of five. After the funeral and burial, I noticed Kelly at the restaurant. She arrived at me like a wave, embracing me like she had been keen to speak with me all day.

&ampquotBob, you have no concept,&ampquot Kelly began with a peaceful glimmer, &ampquotI am so grateful for the studying I had with that psychic medium a month ago. It has helped me get through this, comprehending that Rick is nevertheless here, that he is all correct. I speak to him and he has provided me power to get through this,&ampquot she acknowledged.

A couple of weeks later on my spouse, Melissa, and I acquired an email from Kelly’s brother, Danny, and his spouse, Caroline (my sister-in-law). They needed to thank Melissa and I for the spiritual insights they had found through us from our perform with psychic mediums. Our affect had acquired them to view John Edward’s Tv display, Crossing More than With John Edward, truly frequently prior to the accident. They wrote that Rick’s death was by some indicates simpler to offer with because of to what they had found.

The exact same yr our buddy, Mary, misplaced her sister, Dianne. Mary had been to see 1 of my recommended psychic mediums a couple of months prior. She hugged me tightly in the receiving line at the wake, declaring her comprehending that her sister was not dead, but was alive in spirit. Knowing is diploma of perception that results from studying about the afterlife and seeing, hearing or encountering the proof personally till you &ampquotknow&ampquot it is true? actual. Mary looked ahead to hearing from Dianne at her subsequent studying.

A couple of months later on my other sister-in-law, Jen, misplaced her grandmother. Nana was probably her closest buddy and mentor. At the funeral, Jen shared with me that she nevertheless talks with Nana all the time-because of what she found through my perform. She knows Nana is nevertheless with her. Jen informed me she is glad Nana had the chance to read my guide and go to an occasion I gave with five psychic mediums. Jen believes these problems helped Nana with her passing.

The testimonials of Kelly, Danny, Caroline, Mary and Jen had a concept for me: Learning about the afterlife provides hope, comfort and peace to the grieving. I now acknowledged that people’s grief is impacted by this proof irrespective of whether or not they discover about the afterlife prior to or following they shed somebody near to them.

The coincidence of all these testimonials coming inside this kind of a short span of time was not misplaced on me. But just to be sure the concept sunk into my thick skull, spirit orchestrated a grand-finale of messages from behind the ethereal veil. I obtained 20-two rapid-fire emails from strangers all much more than the planet with similar messages as these from Kelly, Danny, Caroline, Mary and Jen, thanking me for my guide and content articles on the afterlife. Okay, I acquired it studying about existence following death helps people with their grief.

With this I created the premise that there is a direct connection in between one’s diploma of perception (in an afterlife) and one’s diploma of grief. So I took surveys, interviewed specialists, eavesdropped conversations and spied Internet chat-rooms. It was unanimous: perception and grief are linked. The proof was significant, although unscientific. I had found to acknowledge that about the spiritual. Evidence is subjective. Some people require much more proof than others prior to they think. I understand. I was as soon as 1 of these people.

Hence, I found The Grief And Perception Connection. While spiritual insight about existence following death will not get rid of your grief, it can alter your grieving expertise from 1 of hopelessness, distress and concern to 1 of hope, comfort and peace. It is the difference in between questioning exactly where your deceased cherished has gone, feeling a loss of connection with them and worrying if they are nevertheless struggling-OR-comprehending your cherished 1 is securely surrounded by the light and adore of God, comprehending that they are watching much more than you and can pay attention to you speak to them, and believing that they are not struggling, but instead, celebrating their homecoming with these who had crossed much more than prior to them.

After approximately five many years of investigation, these are my conclusions. For me, it has produced all the difference, which is why I have now shared them with you.

Warmly,
Bob Olson
Writer / Editor
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About The Writer

BOB OLSON is a prior skeptic and personal investigator who has researched proof of existence following death for approximately five many years. He now shares the spiritual insights, extraordinary experiences and gifted individuals he has met along his journey in purchase to carry hope, comfort and peace to the grieving. Bob is the author of Win The Battle, co-author of Understanding Spirit, Understanding Your self and editor of GriefAndBelief.com, OfSpirit.com Journal, &amp#038 BestPsychicMediums.com

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